i googled.. "what if my gf dun love me anymore?"

these are my answers....

xactly the same thing has just happend to me :( i was with her 4.5 years and afte a great evening at a family wedding she came out with she dussnt feel the same and our love isnt as strong as it use to be. I i asked why ect and its just making things worse getting her all frustrated. im going to let her have time. I know how hard it is. ive spoken to her eveyday for 4 years to all of a suddern nothing. I hope she changes her mind but its fate.


then this guy.. agreed with him..:


In some ways I agree with perfectgentleman. If your woman says she doesn't love you anymore, give her space. But, you should keep up your appearance: look good, exercise, have fun with friends. How have you changed since the beginning of your relationship? Got a little lazy? If you want her back give her time to see why she fell in love with you in the first place. Don't bug her or ask her why, leave her alone! She needs to see someone she can rely on, financially above other ways. Wait about a month then casually call her to say hello. Ask her if she wants to go out for lunch, not a date! Keep it short, about thirty minutes, then take off. if she wants to stay longer, leave her hanging, show her she isn't the top priority and you have a life. call about a week later, or if she calls sooner, see if you can do it again. NEVER bring up anything from the past! If you start dating her again, and she does the same thing, move on.


Are you Kidding me let me give you the real deal bro,most likely she is young and thats the one of the worst mistake us men make messing with these young girls , who all the want to do is shoot a porn and ride around in a nice car and shop well of course the wont tell you that, they havent made up ther minds about life yet, and if shes is older or young, there is a great chance she is seeing some one else and there offering her something that your falling down on,wither or not if shes already geting it,but if you know your a good man and your doing every thing you can i mean REALLY..i agree with what (Ponungalungb) said just let her go and she will relize what she did,BUT you must not down grade your women get a better one, go to the gym work out keep shaved allways smeel and look good why.??? cuz they will say look.. he is a mess now that i left him.. NO you do it real big look better walk better talk better smile bigger these women feel the can feed you TRASH just because of what is between there legs and when they do that its witch craft to me.. sounds crazy ?? read it again and think hard you will thank me..BE STROUNG ALL OF YOU




I know how you feel, I have just got the exact same today. my girlfriend of 9 months has just left me. I was fine with her all day today, last night we watched titanic together, it couldnt have been better. Now suddenly her friends are more important and she wants to break up. I'm not sure how to deal with it, I keep crying and everything, I do reminds me of her and how we used to be...[ I MISSED YOU TOO....]


I'm in pretty much the same situation as you right now. I'm 18 and my ex (of a few days) is 24. we had been living together. it was a strong love for a long time, spent every minute together, you know? then something changed for her. I could tell but she would keep saying she loved me. I decided maybe she's just down about something and it would get better. Then we broke up. We got back together with us making an agreement we would take a break for a few months and stay together but like, not see each other, a break. So i like this idea (it was mine) and we spent the next 3 weeks together til i moved. in that time, i thought htings were getting better and maybe we could just keep going. I still had to move away. when i did, i called her the next night, she said she didnt think any of it was going to work out and that she had moved on. I was speechless, honestly. she told me she hadnt loved me for a while and she was unable to love (she has some childhood issues and makes it hard for her to trust and love). i thought our relationship had been so strong and everything.


i plead with her, tried to make her see reason.
then today i saw reason. I was being selfish. i shouldnt control her life and she shouldnt control mine. This is when i made a huge turning point in my heartbreak. I realized that if it was meant for us to be together, it would happen and i just had to wait it out. No more emailing 5 times a day, no more calls. I had to give her space to miss me and if she really was in love with me and just couldnt see it, she would come back to me. All you gotta do is give the girl some space to breathe, maybe get their emotions in check, and then if it's right it'l lhappen. Its still hard not to be incredibly sad about it because you remember how you fell in love, the first months, and all that. Yeah, those times were great and you never think it'll happen again, but it most likely will. Dont stew on it or else it'll just eat away at you and give you an ulcer. Memories don't disappear into thin air, and so you can always remember the great great beautiful thing you two had. Maybe write a memoir of the relationship to the best of your memory. write the first time you met and the entire break up and what happened and everythign in between. I think i am gonna do this also




When can i be strong??

Hang out With my cutie pie.. xD

see bebe..... xDD

soft drink that i bought in 100 yen..

receipt.. xDD...

today wake at 9..
now.. sleepy like hell..
after update then wanna bath...
haha..
just back home..
lets see..
i woke up early in the morning then i see my bebe's msg..
"be.. morning.."
then i replied lo..
then i roll on the bed a while cos i was too tired..
then bout 10++ am i made the pizza she asked..
well....
LOL...
i made one for myself too...
from outside quite.... disgusting...
haha..
but once i bite.. yum yum~ xD
my bebe also say not bad...
just outside need improvements..
then..
we went igentis.. 
i had yum yum apple juice..
and she had kid's meal.. xD
and blue blue sea..
total it cost me bout... RM16.85
then..
we watch sammy's adventures..
not bad geh..
bebe say romantic..
thought of watching 3D...
my lovely bebe keep complaining expensive..
wat a good wife i got.. xD.. [ those who see this.. dun jealous.. =P]
after movie..
went watsons...
but bebe's deodorant, bebe's dye hair thing..and my face thing..
total is RM56.50..
bebe buy me the face thing... RM 10.80.. haha..
then..
today is her mom's birthday..
i say wan buy cake..
she dun let.. haha..
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNTIE... xDD
thought wan buy card..
she also dun let..
she duwan me waste money wo.....
then eat sushi...
YUMYUM........
lucky got colleague's member card..
got 20% off at 3-5pm.. after that 10 % only.. xD
so from 3-5 we eat bout 9 plates..
then 5++ we eat 3 plates..
suppose to be lain kira d..
but the guy give 20 %.. xD...
total is 50.15..
so cheap..
we eat full till die.... xD..
then after that...
go toilet..
bebe's mom called..
hmm..
that time gotta seperate with be jor..
x sampai hati la..
xD..
then like this lo..
we didnt fight...... xDD..
at night meet sis ar the 100 yen shop..
makan the ice cream...
yum yum... xD..
then bought one soft drink...
damn cute.. xDD..
then i go hawaii makan with family.. xD..
then now....
i'm tired like a pig.. oink oink..
after bath teman bebe then i go rest.... xDD

hmmm...

yea....

what a day....

i'm just so tired....

works or love life or anything..

i'm tired....

maybe too tired??

heartaches, physical pain..

can anyone help me..??

maybe you, my love..??

hmm..

you told me you love me..

yet you told me you dun love me already...

cried all day..

i duwan to work today......

i cant stand those pains...

its hurting me damn badly....

wat should i do...?

i am tired.......

will you be there for me...?

hmm...

i hope my pain will end..

me & you would be much happier..
i created  a group in fb..
i need you guys support...
if i do this.. maybe i could get back her trust..
and her love...
pls like my group....
i just need her......

Boboy!! be strong no matter wat!!

因为您的爱退了色… 我倾斜做任何东西… 我倾斜力量您。 如此我将迫使自己离开。 因为我能感觉。 您那么非常恨我。


i duno if its right..
but i tried my best.. =)..

if you loved someone else...
this is the thing i should tell you...
though its a lyrics...


Zhi sheng xia gang qin pei wo tan le yi tian
shui jiao de da tian qin
An jing de jiu jiu de
wo xiang ni yi biao xian de fei chang ming bai
wo dong wo ye zhi dai
ni mei you she bu de
ni shuo ni ye hui nan guo wo bu xiang xin
qian zhe ni pei  zhe wo ye shi cheng jin
xi wang ta shi zhen de bi wo hai yao ai ni
wo cai hui bi zi ji li kai

ni yao wo shuo duo nan kan
wo gen ben bu xiang fen kai
wei she me hai yao wo yong wei xiao lai dai guo
wo mei you zhe zhong tian fen
bao rong ni ye jie shou ta
bu yao dan xin de tai duo
ni yi jin yuan yuan li kai
wo ye hui man man zhou kai
wei shen me wo lian fen kai dou qian jiu zhe ni
wo zhen de mei you tian fen
an jing de mei zhe me kuai
wo hui xue zhe fang qi ni..
shi ying wei  wo tai ai ni...


i hope you could find someone better..
as i let you go..
=)..

we're over?

hmm... *speechless*
hope you're happy...
you said the love i gave you were sucks..
i hope you could find someone better.. =)..
take care....
Holding back all the tears and sadness....

Very Late Update...

1stly....
i'm glad that my bebe fell in love with me again..
yes,
it faded...
i duno how much...
but that was the hard time i passed through...
and i duwan another time..
so i will be my bebe's guai guai hubby..
listen to wat you say ONLY.. xDD
i duno wat i did to get her love again..
it faded since 20++ September i guess....
then... one day..
she tell me she duno whether she love me or not..
well, at least she's honest...
then...
i tried hard to get her love again..
i find her when i off..
i even did something wrong...
which i cant tell... me & be's secret... ^^
then... i still remember...
the most hurt moment...
is that..
she said she was scared of me..
who wants a lover to be afraid of them..?
she said she's horrified..
cos i kept looking into her eyes and asked her the same question again & again..
that question is... "do you love me..?"
i know when she lies when i look into her eyes..
maybe she's scare that i might get hurt.. so she hide behind her eyes...
and from that day onwards....
when she told me she was scared and horrified..
i never asked her that question till today..
but i told her i love her..
i duno if its everyday or not..
but i did told her those 3 words...
i'm afraid i would annoyed her if i keep pushing her..
so i didnt tell her that often....
these few days her exam started..
we didnt fight for quite long time.. [but i am not asking for a fight bebe.. =)]
we're just fine...
just acted that i'm ok..
as i try to get her love again...
i never know when i'll get it back.. seriously... never...
finally till today...
i called her when i break....
i skipped my dinner..
cos i was tired...
we talked for about 17 minutes as i could remember..
before the last few minutes ends...
she thought i was moody...
but actually..
i'm tired..
i told her i was tired...
she chased me to rest..
usually all these while...
when we're talking on the phone..
both of us dun wanna hang the call..
we'll say..
"you close 1st"
"duwan..you close 1st"
"bye bye"
"bye bye"
"close la~"
"i close lo"
"bye bye"
"bye bye..
this routine keep repeating..
until i give up..
but today..
i hang up without argue with her...
cos i'm scare she'll be angry if i didnt listen to her..
then afetr o hang..
i waited her msg for few minutes..
she didnt msg me..
then i msg her...
she told me her reasons..
then she told me she was scared..
i asked her..
wat she's scared of..
she said....
"scare you moody then kap lui"
izit babe?
forget d..
xD..
but all this thing happen..
i know its my fault for being not guai..
but today's boboy...
and last two years you've been with me...
i changed to be more matured..
i know how to think d..
more patience d... xDD..
be...
i just wanna be with you.. =)...
when i writting this post..
i cried.... because...
i'm glad i still have you in my arms.....

2ndly..
my salary got d..
hmm..
not bad...
1900++..
lol...
few hundreds give mom and grandparents..
then left duno how much..
900 save in bank d..
wanna take license geh..
car downpayment no need so worry 1st...
december got bonus get...
haha..

3rdly..
i finally got one new worker..
wow.....
she's much more "hardworking" than the last time malay girl..
great liar too...

4thly...
be!!! i love you..
xD..
GooD LucK FoR YouR ExaM
i'm sorry for everything... <3

I want tell you something

hmm... i shy... errr...

xD.. your bebe o...

your bebe ❤you

FOREVER

=)..
❤ ❤❤ ❤❤ ❤❤ ❤❤ ❤❤ ❤ 
Boboy ❤  Yinx Wei

Hmm...

A very tiring week...
1stly..
got one new useless worker worked for 1 day..
and the next day he didnt came...
my shop only got 3 full time now..
if one person off..
2 person full..
1 person break...
1 person jaga shop...
how o??
hmm..
useless malay guy la... wan stop then simply stop..
then give us one simple and unacceptable reason...
" i am not ready "
=.=...
then his blady sister working ar one shop..
i go find her..
i was so angry..
so i actually scolded the wrong person..
because i'm suppose to scold her brother... not her...
her sister told me..
he can work..
he duwan work at that shop cos he is part time there...
dun talk cock la!!
your fucking brother is so damn lazy...
say wanna attck me but think i'm a girl...
use your brain...
i'm NOT  a normal girl...
u wanna fight you may come..
but...
you're such a coward..
stop work d still got face see me ma??
haha..
you're useless..
yea...
malay pig!
coward then coward la...
you make me whole month no more noon ar so hai!
not resposible at all...
then after that... i explained to his sister...
i give him one week to apologise to my boss..
if not i ask him to careful..
one thing i hate is...
this damn person made my boss dun trust me..
well.... you know how hard i work to get my boss trust??
hmm..
and bacause of one person..??
not worth it man..
plus its not even may fault..
so i how also must take my revenge..
if one week he no apologise..
i will make him kneel down in front of crocs and say sorry to eveyone there.. {[that is wat i'm thinking]
but.. the 1st day itself..
he sent duno wat useless msg to Ruru.. and ask her forward to my boss..
seeeeee....
wat a coward..
just a msg ma.. =.=
now many ppl got OT d cos of him..
everyone so tired... hmm..

here;s another thing...

when i scolded her sister in her shop..
her beloved assistant in charge not syok me..
say wan attack me..
but hor...
no attck also..
waiting for you to come ar..
but your ppl at your shop so coward...
fine..
you say you wanna protect your worker...
but here's another situation you need to think...
my colleague [RuRu] go toilet...
then saw them in front..
then Ruru no smile..
they not syok...
then when Ruru break..
Ruru need to cross there to go watsons..
so when ruRu going that time..
heard ppl call her "sohai and Fucker"
=.=..
so childish....
shouted outside the shop..
then got many ppl sumore...
haha..
no face la them~~
then i go there wan bincang bincang..
mana tau..
one of them cried..
then two more person came out from the store room..
one by one wanna attack me.. =.=..
one fella pull my shirt ma..
everyone looking tiam..
=.=..
so no brain la them...
then i go back to my working place and chill..
the very lovely in charge there..
i think too coward d...
call our boss and tell them we cari pasal with them...
the Sister's brother problem already settle..
he apologise d..
then i no disturb them..
just because ruru didnt smile at them..
they wanna find trouble..
how childish...
they're 20 ++ d..
we crocs worker
me 17..
ah wan 22
ruru 19
lisa 19 [part time]
they so old d also no use brain..
they call our boss cos they canot fight with us..
call boss to stop us..
so lame.....
they dare to call..
but o....
when my boss go there..
my boss asked..
wat happened??
and the person that pull my shirt..
DARE TO ANSWER X TAU...
how lame....
=.=..
but boss ask us not to fight d..
we so guai..
sure we'll listen geh..
haha
i wanna see how thier face drop.. =)...
WE CROCS WONT LOSE GEH..



then..
here's my another problem.....
my be told me her love faded d..
wat can i say?
nothing....
i will try to get back your love if you didnt love anyone else...
i just asked you..
you love me?
you answered... [duno.. stop asking me!!]
any idea how hurt m i?
well...
i gotta be matured..
i must stay strong..
yesterday i keep calling me..
you keep rejecting..
one question you asked me through msg..
[ stop calling.. type in msg can die ar?]
izit wrong if i missed your voice?
hmm..
you ownself say your love fade d...
i also duno we're still togther a not..
yesterday you say i didnt cry...
but i actually did...
i changed so much for you d..
you say i got no time for you..
when i got time i every minute msging you d..
i try to spend my time with you..
but its ok la..
my this month salary i got think wan give you money..
i tell my colleague..
i tell her you going hong kong next year..
so i wanna give you money...
my colleague say..
dun give her...
but help her keep..
my colleague scared you will use the money..
so ask me now keep..
next year give you..
hmm..
my this month salary will be around 1400 - 1500..
next month i'm taking my undang test d..
i just wanna pass my license and get my car..
so i can spend more time with you..
you know wat i eat everyday??
just because wanna save money?
afternoon..
i eat nasi goreng..
and evening..
i eat roti telur..
how long kfc and mcd didnt touch my tongue d..
=(
you like la be....
i love you..